Remove the word Can’t on your vocabulary

God believes in us, we also need to believe in ourselves. Never allow anyone to tell you that you can’t because that only the limitations of their thinking.


Good judgement comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement.

Experience isn’t always the kindest teacher but it is one if those teachers who’s lessons will stick with you. When  you learn through experience, you are given a test before you even know what the lesson is.

Understand that life comes from looking at the past and applying those experiences to help make the best decisions for today. There is no substitute for an education of experience, that one lasts forever.

That’s why even in our hardest time we must be brave and strong and always remember that it’s just an opportunity for us to learn and go forward in life. Sometimes it takes making a bad decision to realise what making a good one is.

show me your friends and I’ll tell you who you are.

Friends and people we surround ourselves with mean everything. They create an atmosphere to which defines who we are and what we become. What type of friends do you have? Do they support you like they should? Do they encourage you and influence you to be the best that you can be? Do they really got your back or maybe they just holding you back? 

Go for friends that have the same goals, ideals, visions and values as you do. 

life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we’re here, we should dance.

Life is full of the unexpected, especially when you are willing to celebrate it through the good times, and the bad times.

Though we may not receive everything that we have ever hoped for in the time in which we expected to, we can never let these disappointments stop us form keeping a positive attitude. Everything that you do and everything that you go through are experiences that may help to provide great value to your life if you are just willing to look at them as tools for learning.

Look for the good in every situation, and never fear the struggle of getting to the number one spot in your field.

The best kind of relationships Begin unexpectedly

Sometimes we hold ourselves back when it comes to relationships as we set a specific scope on who we would allow ourselves to be in a relationship with, forgetting that everyone may not always look the part they may be able to play in our lives.

We’re human, we make mistakes, and sometimes it is because of these mistakes that we find ourselves in places we may not have ever expected to be with people we thought we’d never be with. Sometimes these relationships that develop from unusual circumstances are the best thing for us.

Caring for people that we may have never saw coming can change who you are from the core, and show you sides of life that make you appreciate being alive even more.

So never take for granted the unusual. Be adventurous! Guard your heart but remember that as long as someone is always genuine with you, maybe you should give them a chance.

If you love someone, tell them. Hearts are broken by unspoken words.

Every day that passes by on this earth that we have life in, is simply a blessing. No one can predict the date and the exact time that they will go to meet their Maker, but we do know that death is enviable. One of the most important things we can do in our lives is to make it a point to tell people who is on our hearts how we feel. There have been so many who regret not telling people how they really felt, or how much they cared for them before they passed.

The pain that many experience because of this regret can be very intense because you realize that all it would have took to change the regret you are feeling in the moment, is a little more initiative on your part. Refuse to live with regret, and refuse to be ruled by fear of telling someone how you really feel. do it while you still have the time.

To you who is reading this, I love you.

Note to self

Through out my life I’ve been a victim of wanting to be accepted and approved by my friends and peers. It’s a good feeling I won’t lie, but the extent I went to in order to get that wasn’t worth it. Be with those that like you the way you are, and if means changing yourself in order to be with someone or some people, it’s them you should be changing.

my reflection

As I reflect back upon my childhood and every later stage, I know that each and every experience was divinely placed to stitch together my personal tapestry. I would not change anything.